A guide to contacting swinging couples and singles on our website.
Create a profile by responding to the questions in the "Join Us" box at the top of the page.
Make sure you make your profile True and Interesting. Is is pointless telling lies in your profile, as people will find you out if they decide to meet you.
Profiles with a photo get 4 times as many responses as with out a photo.
Do not try to enter email addresses or phone numbers. Our admin team will not pass the profile. Phone numbers and emails are removed to protect people from malicious use, such as creating a fake profile for someone and putting their private details.
Browse through the contacts for people who are looking for people like you.
Only respond to people advertising for someone like you. If you are a single man and the person is looking for a couple, don't waste their time, or your own, by replying to them.
When you find someone you match, write them an interesting message. In the message explain why you match what they are looking for.
Never write one line messages such as "I want to fuck you". The probability is your message will be instantly deleted.
Single men will have a higher chance of meeting a couple rather than a single woman. Don't worry, the man is unlikely to touch you, unless he has put in his profile he is Bi.
If a person declines to meet you, do not demand to know why. In the swinging scene people have to be attracted to people they have sex with.
We spend a lot of time keeping our database clean. We remove fake profiles as soon as we find them, or someone reports one to us.
Profiles which have upgraded to "VIP" is unlikely to be a fake, as people who create fake profiles are probably not going to pay to upgrade a profile.